As parents we want to put our kids in bubble-wrap to protect them. We want to shield them from harm and danger, minimizing the hurts we've experienced, longing that they might not have to go through what we've gone through. We look around. We see older folks, maybe brothers or sisters in Christ that have persevered through the most grueling circumstances. They have endured great physical afflictions, yet we observe that they are some of the most patient, loving people we know. We think to ourselves, "Boy, I wish I could be just like them. They NEVER complain. They just seem so sweet and unselfish."
Then one day it hits us:
We (parents) ARE becoming just like them. The trials and difficulties God affords us through our children and the various stages they grow through, make us realize that tribulation does indeed work (or precede) patience! One day we DO realize we have more patience than we used to have. But we want to protect our dear children from those hardships of life, that they might be spared from the weight and burden of the results of sin. Surely, there must be another way in which they can become patient, loving, sweet, and unselfish!
Yet again, on another day it hits us:
Our children HAVE (as in NEED!!) to experience these difficulties as well as we, for how else will THEY become the polished Stones and Gems created for the pleasure of God?? It is only in the tumbler of life that the jagged edges are removed, that the priceless treasure may be revealed by God for His glory!!
Dear Parents, take heart. The SAME (remember, that IS one of God's names!!!) the SAME God who preserved those dear older folks, and who IS preserving US, still has the SAME ability to preserve our children!- Remember, "Jesus Christ the same yesterday, and to day, and for ever."? - Hebrews 13:8
jfn - 7/12/2011
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